Fall Needs (Yes, NEEDS)

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Fall is without a doubt my favorite season. The weather, the fashion, the football, the snacks that come with watching football, etc. For some odd reason, whenever I think about Fall fashion, I think about what I would want to wear as I scarf down a dozen doughnuts at the Cider Mill (I need therapy). My excitement for the season is building, so I’ve already picked out some pieces I feel I need to complete the vision of drowning myself in fresh cider:

 

1) Rebecca Minkoff ” Mini 5- Zip” Convertible Crossbody Bag: $129 ( special Nordstrom Anniversary sale price!)

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Optimal for free hands to carry more doughnuts. Plus this beautiful grey sleet color will go with everything.

 

2) TopShop for Nordstrom “Mine” Ankle Boot: $130.00 

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I’ve been looking for a brown ankle bootie that doesn’t cut me off at a place that makes me look like i have cankles, this may be them.

 

3) Laundry by Shelli Segal Tweed Single Breasted Reefer Coat: $100 (Another Nordstrom Anniversary sale item!)

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I love experimenting with menswear in the fall, this coat is the perfect piece to play around with.

 

4) J. Crew Merino Asymmetrical Zip Sweater: $89.50

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Love this heather color, would be great unzipped with a silk tee underneath and boyfriend jeans.

 

5) Club Monaco Bria Belt: $69.50

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A little expensive for a belt (hello student discount!), but I think I would get a lot of mileage out of this one!

 

6) Zara Faux Leather Dress: $79.90

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The perfect leather dress to transition from Fall to Winter (A single tear streamed down my face as I typed that word).

 

 Total amount (with student discounts, sale prices that may not be listed): around $500. I’ve recently purged my closet (quality over quantity people!), and I gave myself a budget of $450 for new Fall staples. A litttlleee over budget, so I sold a Kate Spade handbag on ebay that I love, but rarely ever use for the extra dough.

Great rule of thumb to follow: when you gain a piece, give away or sell a piece. Keeps you from hoarding and cluttering your space with things you don’t wear! Except for my haven’t worn since ’99 “Limited Too” *Nsync Shirt. That beauty is here to stay.

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Social-Media-Addiction

My day usually goes something like this: wake up, refresh Twitter, shower, refresh Facebook, go to work, refresh, refresh, send an email, refresh, REFRESH REFRESH REFRESH- until I am completely burnt out on what all my friends, strangers and celebrities are up to.  I used to enjoy seeing photos of that kid from high school’s cool dinner, or what my favorite blogger wore that day. However, I’ve noticed recently that social media no longer makes me happy, it’s making me feel inadequate.

As women (and men!), we are under enough pressure as is. Pressure to have the perfect hair, a great outfit, perfect make-up, a toned body, and the list goes on and on. Now, I’ve never held myself to the standard of being perfect- because I know that’s unattainable. I just do my thing and hold enough confidence to be myself and work with what I’ve got.

However, that confidence diminishes when I go on Instagram and I see my favorite bloggers perfectly polished outfit,  frizz-free hairdo and pore-less face. The outfit that I loved when I got dressed in the morning becomes suddenly not trendy enough, my new haircut is deemed as lame and I start researching the latest craze in skin care (FYI, it’s rubbing coffee on your nose with lemon- DOESN’T WORK…says a friend).

Then I go on Twitter and see my friend started her day with an egg white scramble and a protein shake. Great, now I feel fat because I had a bagel for breakfast. She’s got abs and I’ve got cream cheese on my shirt. So I promise myself I’ll go to the gym after work and never eat Einstein’s again.

Then I get on Facebook and see that annoying couple post a PERFECT photo of them in a field or some sh$# and I think, “why don’t I have cute pictures like that?” “Why am I not having a picnic in an old industrial building with perfect lighting?”(But then I usually go back to gagging at the making-out photos and feel thankful that my relationship is a blast- with or without photos with lyrics underneath).

Every single time I refresh the page, my confidence decays just a little bit and I wish I could be more like anyone but me. I’m sure there’s plenty of people out there that don’t feel this way, but for the millions of us that hold some insecurities, enough is enough.

This morning, I had an Epiphany mid Instagram binge. All these social media sites are for the HIGHLIGHTS of our life. No-one is posting pictures of themselves popping a pimple or looking like a wet rat when they get out of the shower or fighting with their BAE<3. We will never get to see those things that inevitably, everyone goes through- so we forget that they exist for everyone. We see ourselves look less that perfect and doing less than awesome things everyday. It’s truly destructive to always be comparing our lows to someone’s highs.

So many people portray their lives to be perfect online- they made the perfect meal, had the perfect workout, wore the perfect outfit. I’m happy for you really, I am! We should all be proud of the cool stuff we do and accomplish. But I’ll no longer make myself believe that’s how your life is all the time. You’re showing me your highs, and you deserve the right to keep your lows private.

I’m guilty of this too, I know. I’ll post pictures of the great sweater I wore and how good my hair looked that day, but there’s no way you’re going to see me in my 2007 Paul Frank Jammies with a seaweed mask on eating cookie dough by the roll- but know that that does happen 1-2x a week. But now when I refresh the page and see that bloggers stellar “just-woke-up-perfectly-curled!” hair, I’ll know that she probably slept with her mouth open and drooled everywhere, just like the rest of us.

Photo by Sathish Issac

NYFW Fall/ Winter 2014

Happy New York Fashion Week! Apologies for being a tad behind.. I’ve been very busy this week blowing my nose and spending some quality time at the hospital sicker than a dog SO I’m just catching up on the shows. Overall, GREAT start. A few dark horses really grabbed my attention. Cue Katy Perry’s annoyingly addictive Juicy J jam…

TOME

– By far my favorite. It was the label’s runway debut and they killed it. These are clothes for a woman who knows what she wants, not a little girl trying to play dress up. These clothes actually work. Seriously, they WERQ.

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VERONICA BEARD

– Pleasantly surprised with The Veronicas. Nothing too terribly special, but these are clothes I would skip Summer for just to wear in Fall (and that’s saying a lot since the snow is up to the waistline of my leggings…which are actually pulled up to my bra).

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BCBG MAX AZRIA

meh. I expected more on their 25th anniversary. A little too American Hustle for me, which I think has been played out already. HOWEVER, those Muff Purses are everything. I’ve been trying to bring muffs back since 1997. My time is now.

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COACH

Bravo Stuart Vevers. If someone were to show me this collection and ask me to guess the designer, I would have NEVER guessed Coach, which is a great thing. It’s completely different from the brand’s usual aesthetic, and I love it. There is about to be a whole new Coach customer- and it may be me. I haven’t owned a coach bag since I had one of those baguette ones with 2347023 C’s on it in the early 00’s. I used to carry it around in middle school with the lip gloss and feminine products I didn’t need yet.

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DION LEE

I really enjoyed the mix of perfectly tailored work-wear and sexy, unconventional body-con dresses. Soft and Sexy- like Ryan Gosling holding a kitten.

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CREATURES OF THE WIND

– This one might be a tie for my favorite. Effortless, easy, fun, great lines. Enough said.

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RICHARD CHAI LOVE

– I was really looking forward to this collection and I found myself a bit disappointed. Great collections tell a story and take you somewhere. This collection just felt messy and chaotic. The textures and colors were beautiful, but I feel unfulfilled and confused as to what the inspiration was.

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Well, it’s about that time to go rub Vic’s over every crevice of my body! Stay tuned for more snot and shows.

(This sickness is making me very vulgar, I apologize for nothing)

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H.L.A.A (Haute Look Addicts Anonymous)

A few years ago when fashion “flash sales” became a thing, I dabbled in them a bit but never really bought into the hype. Nothing was returnable….brand names weren’t that big…I had no money…..

However, in recent weeks I have rediscovered Haute Look. Haute Look was acquired by Nordstrom in 2011 and let me tell you, SO.MUCH.BETTER. Seriously people- the brands are spectacular, the sales are huge and best of all, just about everything is returnable to Nordstrom Rack. How easy is that?!

My wallet has felt the wrath of Haute Look. As much as I try to stay away, some of the sales are just too good to pass up. It would be rude of me not to take advantage of these God- given opportunities. Here’s some of my haul:

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Retail:$50 | Haute Look : $22

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Retail : $50 | Haute Look : $22

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Retail:$70 (set) | Haute Look:$30 (set)

(It’s becoming apparent to me I may have a pajama fetish….)

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Retail: $158 | Haute Look: $59

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Retail: $275 | Haute Look: $65

And finally, the dress and the price that brought me to my knees:

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Retail: $625 | Haute Look: $65

SIXTY.FIVE.DOLLARS.

Although I can’t stand that “gym, coffee, Haute Look” commercial (hello, we have jobs), I can’t help but find myself being THAT GIRL.

I’ve made a vow not the shop in the month of February (LAWD HELP ME), although there is nothing wrong with browsing Haute Look, viscously adding everything in to my cart then exiting out of the browser in between sobs.

Pray for my soul. February is going to be a LONG month.

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The Happiest Place on Earth

No, I am not talking about Disney Land (or The Wizarding World of Harry Potter, which may be a tie for first). I’m talking about Linda Dresner. Linda Dresner is a woman, a store, and an icon. Dresner owns a self- titled boutique here in Michigan. She is an incredible visionary and has an immaculate eye for fashion. She owned a boutique in New York in the 80’s that attracted the likes of Jackie O and many other influential ladies of that era. This past weekend I was  invited in to help with a sale event (I work for her on occasion- sales, events, photo shoots, etc.).

I have always admired Dresner. As a young girl I used to walk by her store and see the beautiful, one of a kind pieces in the window and dream about the woman who gets the wear them. She offers Couture, Avant Garde pieces in a Midwest town- talk about rare. Working with Linda has been one of the biggest and best opportunities in my life. Building a personal relationship with her has given me some of the greatest inspiration I’ve ever known. She lives and breathes fashion and has fun with it- she doesn’t take it too seriously and she always steps outside the box.

 I definitely still have a contact high from all the Couture I held.

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On me: Style Stalker varsity sweater coat, Madewell blouse and Marc by Marc Jacobs boots.

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Giles Coat

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Above: Balmain Jeans, Commes de Garcons Vest, amazing sherling vest I forgot the designer of (shame on me)

OBVI my favorite- an Alaïa:

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I feel so fortunate that I basically stalked Linda for months so she would invite me to do anything in the store I’ve always admired. Best advice she’s ever given me:

“Life is too short to not dress and look how you want. Have fun”.

Dior Spring Couture 2014

Is there anything like Dior Haute Couture on a cold, blistering Monday morning? Maybe WEARING Dior Couture on a cold, miserable day like today- a girl can dream. I’m loving this collection from Raf. It’s fun, young, flirty and unconventionally sexy. The collection might not take with the older, loyal Dior customer, but I really appreciate the new audience Raf is trying to reach. Take a look at some of my favorites:

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HELLO to the neckline on that floral overcoat. So excited to see the rest of the collections!

(I’m looking at you, Karl)

Props to Style.com for the photos